Honestly, the same use to happen to me. I use to get nervous to the point that I couldn't do shit. But basically, my fiance and I just toughed it out and now its never a problem. I just became comfortable with her and we're all the better for it. I don't know if my "underlying" problem is the same as yours but I just thought it was because my views on sex is that its more than just casual, its sensual and mindblowing to share it with someone... lame explaination but thats my opinion.
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