Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus - great book that saved my relationship.
Been together since 1996 - married since 2004. There are always ups and downs. Good times and bad.
First kid - 6 months ago. Best thing that's ever happened to me. It's a happy life as long as the communication is good. It's a horrible life when the communication breaks down. Just keep up the talking and the sex life, and all will be well.