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Well there has been a lot of advice here and it's all good stuff... I understand your desperation because I've been there myself. The solution is confidence (well it was for me)... The problem is your caught in a vicious circle... you need to find a way to take the pressure off yourself and in this you have something going for you, your girlfriend who seems to be understanding... You need to make it all about giving her pleasure and you are well enough equipped to do this with out using your dick (forget about yourself for now). If you concentrate on looking after her and doing a good job of it, you'll forget about your problems... take confidence from giving her pleasure and soon enough you'll find what you need.
Of course, there is one thing you need to deal with first... and if you've not already done so, your a fool... you need to go apologise for sneaking off and talk to her some more... tell her my plan so she can help, after all, she knows what you need to do to get her going.
Something I can never stress enough to anybody is communication!
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