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I think she must feel like she is getting pressure from him or else she wouldn't have sent him the email. There's really no telling why it has changed and since we cannot here her reasoning behind it we can't completely judge the situation all the members here can do is give him some advice.
If anything I hope, cajeff, you can at least take from this thread that there may be things you can do or try not to do to make things better. You obviously cares for her or else you wouldn't have stayed with her for this long. IMO your best bet is to sit down with her and have a calm talk about it and find out if she can give you any real advice or tell you what/if you are doing anything to sabotage your prospects. Try to keep the other aspects of your relationship strong and hopefully the rest will fall into place.
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