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Originally Posted by Starkizzer
Not every girl is the same I just turned 24 and I know how she feels. I am in no way frigid, but I am satisfied at this point in my life with sex 2-3 times per week. Being satisfied does not mean that we don't want more but if this is all time and energy affords us I am content just to have my fiance there when I need him. Maybe its just me but cuddling, talking and connecting more on an emotional level is just as sexually satisfying as out right banging one out.
Women and men have different sex drives...point blank and every woman is different. My best friend wants it everyday, while my other friend and her fiance have sex about once a month (they both attend UCLA Law, so not much time). Everyone is different and everyones life puts them in different situations.
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Starkizzer, I understand what you're saying and agree for the most part. My thinking is what if cajeff's girlfriends sex drive continues to wane, will he wind up with a woman who is satisified with sex once a month?
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Originally Posted by Daniel_
You crack me up, friend.
You really think that Rat went from deeply dissatisfied and troubled in his sex life to happy blissful troilism in the space of a day, because his wife hooked up?...
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I don't believe that I said or hinted that ratbastid was ever "deeply dissatisfied and troubled in his sex life." I stand by my original post--Rat's advice might be very different if he had wound up in a 17 year long conventional monogamous relationship and marriage.
[QUOTE=ratbastid;2578124]Maybe so. I don't deny for a second that I'm the luckiest summbitch on the planet. But think for a moment about whether our boy cajeff here has the SLIGHTEST chance of ending up where I've ended up, given how he's being about it. Given where I started from and my curent um situation, you'd think my advice would carry all the more weight, woudn't you?...[QUOTE]
Actually, no, I do not. You're in a very unique situation, & I don't see how you can tell cajeff to quit whining, grow up, and be happy having sex 2-3 times a week. I'm also not reading in cajeff's post where he's putting undue pressure on his GF for sex.