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Originally Posted by Anormalguy
Ratbastid, your situation eventually lead to you having threeways with your wife and with your wife's girlfriend, right? I strongly suspect that your advice would be much different if your patience had lead to you having sex 2-3 times a week, or perhaps twice a month, with only your wife.
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Maybe so. I don't deny for a second that I'm the luckiest summbitch on the planet. But think for a moment about whether our boy cajeff here has the SLIGHTEST chance of ending up where I've ended up, given how he's being about it. Given where I started from and my curent um situation, you'd think my advice would carry all the more weight, woudn't you?
Just so your timeline's right, I was dating StellaLuna before lurkette joined us. Not by long, but still. Imagine THAT happening with cajeff's wife's blessing!
Oh, and Hyacinthe? I'd marry you in a HEARTBEAT, babe. Damn polygamy laws.
On related subject, the three of us are having what we're calling a "wedding" in March. Other poly people call such a thing a "commitment ceremony", which sounds a little like they'll put you in a straight jacket at the end of it. So morally, spiritually, the three of us are creating being married, even if it carries no legal status. We're also setting up things like powers of attorney and mutual beneficiary status on insurance and stuff--getting as much legal weight to our relationship as society will stand for.