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		 well Cajeff - i don't know about you - but I learned alot from your experience.  mostly from between what ratbastid and starkizzer said.   been married 24 years - aint seen 3 times a week since the early nineties - unlike the ratster,  I personally don't expect much improvement for me.  but for you who knows by showing a little respect and genuine appreciation, and developing a relationship based on more diverse interests, you may find a good balance and grow to count your blessings.   all i know is that i'm gonna watch out for that mopey signal stuff - as starkizzer so astutley identified - and cut that shit out!  may very well help improve the situation all around 
		
		
		
		
		
			
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