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I disagree with you Crompsin, Not every guy can just turn off the trust factor with seeing his wife in bed with ANYONE, male of female. Personally if I walked in on my wife and another woman I would be PISSED! If I DIDNT kick the other girl out of the house and get into a SERIOUS discussion with my wife, I would be lying. The trust factor is broken, and THAT is the strongest part of a relationship. If I can't trust her with that, then I would CONSTANTLY be wondering how many times she had done it before, if she had done it with a man before...etc. I couldnt believe her if she said it was her first time, because this would have destroyed any trust I had in her. Hell, if a girl even gave me a flirty eye or casually flirted with me I tell my wife, and we laugh about it, have a good time, and who knows, sometimes it makes the sex a little more fun later that night... hehehe. So We tell each other about everything that happens. If I walked in on her in the middle of something, it would destroy me. Now if I came home, and she had a girlfriend sitting with her in the living room and the two of them dragged me into the edroom to watch, that would be different, just dont let me walk into the middle of it already happening without my knowledge.
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