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Every hard-on doesn't require an orgasm. Get that thought out of your head, and you might become a little less overbearing to your girlfriend. Learn to enjoy being teased a little, knowing that when you get pleased it will be that much better. More than anything though, realize that a kiss, a hug, holding hands, etc are ways to show you care about someone, not just firstbase. Do these things for her with no agenda and enjoy it for what it is. As soon as your GF feels loved and not like just a sex object, the pressure will decrease on her and you will find her to be more sexual in the end. Long story short, love her the way she wants and you will be both end up very satisfied.
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"The sunrise ain't pretty when you ain't been to bed...tomorrow is today instead."
Bobby Bare Jr.
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