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I do understand the point...but when kissing turns to touching and rubbing and no sex is at the end. What I'm I supposed to do with a hard on. There is a difference between hugs and kisses and turning a guy on to the point they have no choice but to have sex or rub one out. What I was saying is that I will go for weeks being as romantic as can be and not expecting sex and yes I get some, yet the amount is not enough. When I mention this it turns to arguing.

'This is exactly what I was thinking. Do you take time to do anything like hold hands, give her a hug, a random kiss, etc? What about a compliment once in a while? Can you do any of these things without progressing to sex?'

All the time. I tell her she is beautiful, give her hugs and kisses, take walks, cook meals, buy flowers. All without expecting anything, but it is like she does not hear them. I am not all about sex, sex, sex. But it feels rather one way when I do all of these things yet, I am the one expected to change. Can we not meet in the middle.