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Originally Posted by shakran
Sounds to me like you missed the point of her note. She doesn't want you to not mention sex. She wants you to show affection for her without sex being a required reward. Not every hug or kiss has to lead to a romp in the sack, something many guys in their early 20's don't quite seem to get. Women do not want to feel as though they are just a convenient receptacle for your penis. Start being romantic, and start being affectionate just to be affectionate, with no other goal.
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This is exactly what I was thinking. Do you take time to do anything like hold hands, give her a hug, a random kiss, etc? What about a compliment once in a while? Can you do any of these things without progressing to sex?
This shouldn't be just about your sex drive and your needs. Why is she required to have the same sex drive as you and be ready to satisfy your sexual needs whenever you feel its necessary? Everyone has a different sex drive and hers just must be lower than yours. If you are looking for this relationship to be a long term commitment, you will most likely need to compromise and start showing affection other than sex. Otherwise, find some else who has a sex drive closer to your own.