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Hey bud, when I was young this happened to me. The very first time I ever had sex, I couldn't get it up I was so nervous. I was ashamed, kind of. I was 17 and strapping but also a huge nerd (which I proudly still am). Luckily the 18 year old girl was experienced in these issues and fixed the problem within 30 minutes.
This happened the second time, the third and up to the fifth. After that, I had enough confidence without help.
I think this is probably the issue, but who can tell on an internet forum? Confidence, man.
...and to the person who suggested alcohol... don't over-do it. I've been whiskey-dicked before. That's some frustrating stuff there. The only other problem is that if you use alcohol to calm yourself, you can start associating it and that ain't good in all cases. You don't want to do it to the point where you need a drink or two every time before sex.
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