Xerxys

Hey TFPers,

I have participated in these (BDSM) activities at least only once and I think I enjoyed it?? Well, to me I don't think that BDSM is a kink. I categorize a kink as something that brings you sexual pleasure. When I was being a submissive party, I got no pleasure at all, and note, I have no desire to be a dominant person, I just cant imagine bringing anyone any sort of pain.

When I was being a sub, I WANTED to be humiliated. I had met the girl over the internet so I mentally prepped myself. And my GOD she was beautiful it was easy. I thought all kind of great over the top thoughts about her, you know, stuff like how pure she is and put her way over there on the pedestal!!! The only rule was no cursing, then you loose value.

Anyway, point is, I WANTED her sharp reprimand, I WANTED to be punished for whatever reason and also, I WANTED to feel like she was better than me. I was willing to endure pain both physical and mental. But here's the thing though, I NEVER once felt ANY sexual pleasure at all...... I did enjoy it, but much like a sport. TFPers, whats your take on this. Do you do any BDSM stuff, do you enjoy it, and finally does it bring you the same sensation akin to an orgasm?? I know I never got one, but I am really starting to think I like being a sub.....hmmmm