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Originally Posted by Stiller
Well a little update: nothings working! (literally!)  Last week I stayed at her place and we ended up fooling around for a while then she went to the bathroom and came back completely naked and got in bed with me. She got on top of me and started basically dry-f'ing me and I just couldn't get hard. Finally about another hour later she went down on me and I was able to get something going, and then sex lasted less than 30 seconds...
So she told me it was no big deal and she understands (since I hadn't been with anyone in a few years, etc.) So tonight I was back over at her place.. again she got completely naked in her bed and I just couldn't do it..This is the most embarrassing thing in the world to me and I don't think I'm going to even bother getting into that type of situation with ANYone for a long long time... I just can't take the humiliation anymore. After she fell asleep I snuck out of the bed without saying bye and just left. I don't know what to do.. If I'm here at home browsing the interwebs or watching videos, I have no problem getting an erection by myself.. wam bam I can get one in under 30 seconds no problem but then when I'm going down on a girl or I have a completely naked babe trying to ride me, I just get this anxiety moment where I can't do anything... HELP!
Are there any pills I could take? Like a viagra alternative or something? My self-esteem is shot and I now have 0 confidence |
The first thing that you need to do is
apologize big time to your partner for sneaking out. It sounds as though she is really understanding and is trying to help you, and that is exactly what you need.