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Old 12-24-2008, 06:44 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by ngdawg View Post
Well, since I seem to have been the fat catalyst....

What about someone like me who doesn't like a lot of the things that are healthy? Hate nuts(except fresh roasted peanuts or the salty dry roasted ones), hate mushrooms, hate asparagus (*shiver*). Anything with the word "vinegar" in it makes me cringe. Cheese of any kind? Bleh, except pizza.
I'll eat raw spinach, but can't stand to be near the cooked stuff.

Regarding portions on packaging, I've always felt it was unrealistic. A half gallon of ice cream is 16 servings? Try 5. And who eats 10 chips?

When I was on Weight Watchers, back in '99, we had to keep a food journal. We were given a booklet with the points value of many foods and a larger book that even included restaurants and fast food joints was available. Most veggies and fruits were either freebies in points or 1 point for many fruits. The points were based on several factors, but suffice it to say that one slice of pepperoni pizza was 15 points. On an allowance of 24 points a day, I didn't eat any pizza for 6 months.
I had cut my portions tremendously, to the point of not being able to eat a big plate of anything after just a couple weeks. But I was surprised to see what constituted a "portion"; most times I was underestimating. I lost 45 pounds back then and until last year, when I switched from a hectic retail nightmare to a desk job, was able to keep it off within 5 lbs. Add the leg injuries of the past 4 months that prevent me from doing anything (I can barely walk up or down stairs) and it's not hard to see why my seams are stressed. I used to do floor exercises every morning for 10 minutes, now I can't even get ON the floor.
I snack but I don't pig out (unless it's at Joe's Crab Shack or Carrabas )
My eating schedule is sickeningly regular: breakfast at 8, nutrigrain bar or the occasional poppyseed roll (with butter) and water at about noon, lunch at 2:30, dinner at 7. It's the hours between lunch and dinner and dinner and bed that are doing me in. As noted in my blog, I am hooked on cherry slices( jelly candies) and there's always cookies in the house. The men in my life keep buying me candy or brownies, even though I groan at them and call them saboteurs. But even then, a 6 pack of boxed brownies will last me a week.
I'm a water fiend. A bottle is always at my desk, a large metal cup at home.
I don't drink a lot of soda-maybe a small bottle of Coke a week if that-lately I've been trying to stay away from it. Tea is black only, no sugar unless someone serves me Lipton(that stuff is nasty bitter).
I'm not a salt user except french fries, which is maybe once a week. But I am a fast food buyer. Popeye's chicken, Wendy's burgers (lettuce, tomato onion only, though, never cheese, never a double) are a staple in this house, as is Chinese food.

I believe in the old adage, You are what you eat. I was put on a diabetic diet for recurring infections; I've been on a fat free diet to combat gall bladder disease. But habits die hard and even though I know that what I'm doing has a direct affect on how I've been feeling, having this crap around the house to appeal to the other three living here is like lighting up a joint in front of a recovering toker.

Sigh...
Reading through your post makes me want to point out that you're probably eating foods that could be healthy but aren't prepared in a healthy way. Chicken can be healthy but it won't be if it's soaked in grease. Instead of trying to force yourself to eat foods you hate, find healthier ways to cook the foods that you do like.

Little things like substituting olive oil for butter are also going to be helpful. I find the most effective lifestyle changes are the small ones.

It sounds like it might be worth it to sit down and discuss your and your family's needs with a professional nutritionist but if you won't listen to one then don't bother.

The way I overhauled my diet and later that of anyone who lives with me is I simply stopped buying unhealthy foods. I don't buy cookies or candy. Instead I buy lots of fruit and vegetables as well as other healthier snacks which I still find tasty. Also, if you want something like ice cream, try sorbet with reduced or no sugar. If your kids want cookies they can go get a couple at a time, but usually it won't be worth the trouble for them and the same will probably go for you.

As far as exercise goes, I have knee problems as well so I can relate to your dilemma. It's been about three or four years since I've been able to run but now I run a couple miles every day (granted, I still get sore). It takes time, but your body does have the potential to rebound. If you don't exercise though, nothing will change. Start with things like swimming and maybe a stationary bike so that your weight is not on your knees.

I hope this helps you ng, and anyone else out there trying to be healthier. If you have any questions I'm sure myself or one of our other fine members can give you an answer but of course, a professional is always the best.

Edit: I just reread your post and realized I had missed something. You mention that the men in your life insist on buying you candy and other sweets and that can be a big problem. You have to be serious with them though and explain yourself so that they can understand what trouble they're causing. They don't have to stop buying stuff all together, but buying less at a time and less often will make a big difference.
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