Thank you for that... I've been trying to figure out why she likes me, without asking her, but as you said, it seems that she likes me for who I am, which I've never even thought about until you mentioned it. Very interesting...
I guess I've been looking and wanting a g/f so badly because I'm really afraid of being alone for the rest of my life, and cause I feel so alone now. But you're right, I need to stop looking for it and I need to just wait for the right moment instead. I've been thinking of calling it off with this girl like, every week, because I'm afraid that she'll never come here, but I don't want to screw up what might happen with her so I'm going to hold out a little while longer with her to see where things go. She's a really great person.
And yup, we talk on the phone every once and awhile. And she really loves to go bowling, and that's one thing this little town has, so I think I may take her bowling, hehe. I just have to try to be myself, minus the shyness. But if she likes me for who I am, I see no reason why I should be shy, so I'll try to keep that in mind when/if we meet.
Thank you for your advice, it's given me things to think about.