Well a little update: nothings working! (literally!)
Last week I stayed at her place and we ended up fooling around for a while then she went to the bathroom and came back completely naked and got in bed with me. She got on top of me and started basically dry-f'ing me and I just couldn't get hard. Finally about another hour later she went down on me and I was able to get something going, and then sex lasted less than 30 seconds...
So she told me it was no big deal and she understands (since I hadn't been with anyone in a few years, etc.) So tonight I was back over at her place.. again she got completely naked in her bed and I just couldn't do it..This is the most embarrassing thing in the world to me and I don't think I'm going to even bother getting into that type of situation with ANYone for a long long time... I just can't take the humiliation anymore. After she fell asleep I snuck out of the bed without saying bye and just left. I don't know what to do.. If I'm here at home browsing the interwebs or watching videos, I have no problem getting an erection by myself.. wam bam I can get one in under 30 seconds no problem but then when I'm going down on a girl or I have a completely naked babe trying to ride me, I just get this anxiety moment where I can't do anything... HELP!
Are there any pills I could take? Like a viagra alternative or something? My self-esteem is shot and I now have 0 confidence