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Dead_man · 12-23-2008, 06:38 AM

Thanks for the replies so far.

I am going to take some time to figure out how to bring it up and then stay on topic.

To answer some questions:

1. Sex was quite frequent when we were just married, though the problem existed already to some degree. One week, we'd have sex three and four times a week. Other weeks were a wasteland of sexual inactivity. I'd come inside from some yard work and see her laying on the sofa with a smile on her face. She'd just masturbated. I don't think she even masturbates any more.

2. Sex, when it happens, is very intense. Much to my dismay, she's like a new 409 bottle. 2 pumps and a squirt. I think it's cute...if I can still be a man and say the word cute, that is. If I do everything right (because certain things have to happen) then she orgasms fast (within 1 to 3 minutes). If I break a chain of events that need to happen, then she lets me finish then I have to finish her off orally.

3. When she has an orgasm from intercourse, she gets very tender, which normally means that I have to stop and we figure out some other way, which again, means I get a phoned-in BJ where I do most of the work, if you get my drift.

The more I write about it, the more problems and other issues I see. It's really hard not being bitter about it.

Thanks for the advice so far. I'm going to figure out a way to talk to her about it. The problem is that i'm a really laid back guy. Neither of us let the little things get to us because they just aren't that important. We do have a pretty open relationship. We communicate when something is bothering us, but the sex thing is just taboo.

I hate forcing arguments, but i'm not a wimpy "yes, dear" kind of guy either. When there is a problem, I let it be known...normally. This case was different in the fact that she's never really denied any discussions before.

The more I think about it, I think the problem is that she's kind of a prude or becoming more of a prude.

12-23-2008, 06:38 AM	#11 (permalink)
Dead_man Upright	Thanks for the replies so far. I am going to take some time to figure out how to bring it up and then stay on topic. To answer some questions: 1. Sex was quite frequent when we were just married, though the problem existed already to some degree. One week, we'd have sex three and four times a week. Other weeks were a wasteland of sexual inactivity. I'd come inside from some yard work and see her laying on the sofa with a smile on her face. She'd just masturbated. I don't think she even masturbates any more. 2. Sex, when it happens, is very intense. Much to my dismay, she's like a new 409 bottle. 2 pumps and a squirt. I think it's cute...if I can still be a man and say the word cute, that is. If I do everything right (because certain things have to happen) then she orgasms fast (within 1 to 3 minutes). If I break a chain of events that need to happen, then she lets me finish then I have to finish her off orally. 3. When she has an orgasm from intercourse, she gets very tender, which normally means that I have to stop and we figure out some other way, which again, means I get a phoned-in BJ where I do most of the work, if you get my drift. The more I write about it, the more problems and other issues I see. It's really hard not being bitter about it. Thanks for the advice so far. I'm going to figure out a way to talk to her about it. The problem is that i'm a really laid back guy. Neither of us let the little things get to us because they just aren't that important. We do have a pretty open relationship. We communicate when something is bothering us, but the sex thing is just taboo. I hate forcing arguments, but i'm not a wimpy "yes, dear" kind of guy either. When there is a problem, I let it be known...normally. This case was different in the fact that she's never really denied any discussions before. The more I think about it, I think the problem is that she's kind of a prude or becoming more of a prude.