All I will say is that it is called making love for a reason, and just because she happens to have a low sex drive does not mean that sex is automatically not important to the relationship. Assuming everything you say is accurate, then she is being rather selfish. A marriage is a partnership, not a dictatorship. There should not be any "I'm flat out not talking about this" topics regarding your life together. Your first goal is not to get her to have sex more often. Your first goal is to figure out how to get her committed enough to the marriage that she's willing to talk about it's problems.
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