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If you are literally just finishing a long degree course I'm amazed you can even think of having kids. I'd be looking for at least a year without making any plans, perhaps some time out to travel, get some money in the bank etc. When we graduated we didn't want kids either. Far too busy working and planning all the exciting things we were going to do now that we were earning money. It took us 12 years to get around to having kids and my wife had a hard time convincing me even then. Kids now age seven I wouldn't have missed it for the world.
It maybe that she has here own ideas about what she wants to do now the pressure to study is off and simply can't see beyond that at the moment. Try and have a chat about what she wants to do over the next few years without raising the issue of kids.
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