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He's obviously embarrassed about it. But the only thing that's going to make a difference is talking about it.
Part of what it is to have sex is to learn your partner--how their body works, how they respond to things. Guys spend a lot of locker-room time discussing "tricks" or "moves", which is bullshit, because your killer thing for Girl A is potentially a complete flop with Girl B. Everbody wants and likes different things. I think this is much more dramatically true on women, but guys vary too.
So sit him down and tell him you're concerned about your ability to satisfy him, and make sure he knows you don't think there's anything wrong or any inadequacy to overcome or anything--you just want to learn him and learn how he works. And go from there.
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