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Thing is, if I go to the strip club, it's not in the past, because I did it while I love this girl. I feel like if I go and not tell her, I'd have to hide the fact that I'd never touched a breast, never saw a vagina in person, etc. I dunno what's right to do...
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If you feel it's wrong, then don't go. If you feel it's not wrong, but you also feel this girl probably won't understand (at least, not at this point, so early in your relationship), then go if you feel really compelled to, but you probably shouldn't share this information with her.
One of the mistakes a person inexperienced at dating makes is, they try to share
too much of themself on their first few dates. They get so excited about meeting someone who they feel they can finally connect with and can share everything about themself with, that they tend to gush forth way too much private/intimate information about themself; information that, really, only a detached and professional therapist could handle all at once, so soon after meeting that person. An example of this is going into deep, intimate detail about your dysfunctional parents and upbringing, and/or your plans for marriage, and/or your past failed relationships, and/or your sexual kinks, all within the first few dates.