Originally Posted by ring

This is a difficult thing to know.

I had a relationship with a person who was a very clever, manipulating,
narcissist.

This person would say and do a cajillion nice things. When he saw I was in a vulnerable,
open, trusting space,
he would zing me good, with nasty, controlling, evil put downs.

If you are experiencing a back and forth pattern of this type,
with this person,
beware.

If this a one or two time occurance..eh..I dunno.

If one negative comment throws you off balance very easily,
most of the time,
with all your realtionships,
I would suggest counseling perhaps.


Hey, it's good to see you around again,
be well.