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					Originally Posted by mixedmedia  Only answer I can think of is: 
 because you allow it.
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					Originally Posted by fresnelly  Just like how it takes only minutes to cut down a tree that has taken hundreds of years to grow. | 
	
 I agree with both. It is so much easier to believe the negative things then the positive. Therefore when one hears such a hurtful thing from the person they trust. If they allow it it can change the way they once view the relationship.