I'm sorry to hear this. I don't want children but I've always made that plain to people.
Assuming that she has changed her mind rather than duped you, has she said why? Maybe something about childbirth has frightened her? Has there been a previous miscarriage and she feels afraid of it happening again? Maybe, in the current economic climate, she is just concerned about the cost? I think you have a right to know why she has suddenly dropped this bombshell. Maybe she hasn't realized just how important having a family is to you.
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