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Old 12-17-2008, 12:35 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by BenChuy View Post
My spouse just informed me that she does not want kids. Flat out. No adoption, no makin' babies. Nothing.

For years we have been forming plans around finishing our major schooling and then diving in and having kids. Now, I am getting my degree because I love kids so this is a major goal in my life. I feel kind of destroyed at the moment and I don't know what to do. I feel almost betrayed by the woman I love.

Has anyone been through something similar and have any advice?
Well first off, I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this. I know what it's like to want children very much, and I can't imagine being blindsided with such a revelation.

I'm with Crompsin on this one. Unless she repents, it may be in your best interest to at least think about separation.

Again, I'm really sorry you're having to go through this.
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