My father actually divorced his first wife over a similar issue. He had finished his Master's degree, gotten a job in school administration, and wanted to have some children. She didn't want to settle down, and didn't want children. They divorced after nine years of marriage, and within a couple of years, my dad met and married my mother. They've been married for 26 years now, going on 27, quite happily.
This is one of those issues where you and your spouse really should be on the same page, and if you aren't, you really ought to reevaluate your relationship. Perhaps it's time to consider some counseling?
__________________
If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
|