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I don't really want children either, im2smrt4u does at least he likes the idea of it.
I think after being with him for this long I realize I love him enough that I wouldn't deny him a kid if I knew he would regret it if we didn't. I have also come to realize that its not so much that I absolutely will not have kids but more that if we don't I won't be disappointed if we don't. I think I would be perfectly happy to not have kids but I know I would love my kid if we decide to have one.
I say try talking to her, ask her why she doesn't want to have kids and try to make it clear that you really do want them.
BTW why was this subject not discussed before marriage? Especially if its such a deal breaker.
Its also hard for me to tell Steven we aren't having kids when I'm holding a friend's baby and he gets this look in his eye one that is just so hard to not let it melt your heart.
It also doesn't help when kids seem to love me and everyone tells me that I would make a great mom.
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Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey
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