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Originally Posted by dlish
reallyyy????
you saying that people always catch diseases the first time round?
my advice..wait 3 months and get a STD test done on yourselves. dont take your lives for granted.
and anyone who tells you that they are part of a swingers club and 'dont do much' is full of it. so i would take their word about being disease free with a grain of salt
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Seconded. You're playing with fire, here... your encounter would be no different than having a one-night stand with someone you had just met, when you were single... would you have been any less careful, then? Personally, if they are responsible swingers, they ought to be totally comfortable and used to being asked about STD checks and the like... I mean, that just seems like obvious common sense to me. I find it strange that they did not ask you about STD's in the first place... I don't know if I would meet up with them if all 4 of you did not agree that it was a priority to get tested and discuss the results before anything further went on.
My two cents. I'm not a risk-taker when it comes to my body... there's too many things that could go wrong and severely impact my quality of life, just because of a careless romp or two.