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My first lives an hour or two away. We haven't spoken regularly in 4 years or so, but we did on and off for a few years initially. After losing my virginity to her, I came to find out she was dishonest and promiscuous. I still hooked up with her sexually a few times over the years afterwards, but I never developed any attached feelings.
She has a wonderful heart for animals and is a ton of fun, but her promiscuity and corresponding lies has lead to her being involved in unhealthy relationships.
I have moved on and am in a committed relationship, but I have thought about reaching out to 'the first' so we can hang out casually from time to time as friends in group settings.
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