Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - View Single Post - met another couple... safe sex

stgmngr · 12-11-2008, 09:58 AM

My wife and I met another couple while on vacation and we all hit it off sexually.

We both were intamate with the other's spouse and did not use condoms (both men are sterile).

Now back at home we question our moral decision to not have "safer sex" with the couple.... We are going to visit them in a 2 months and we will of course have some wild times again.

Is it the time to ask them to take STD testing and the same for us so that we can all be sure we are disease free?

We have not been with anyone else for over 10 years.... but the other couple are members of a swing club although they tell us that they "don't do much there".

How does one bring up this subject to someone.... aren't you saying to them "that you want to make sure you are not going to give me a disease?"

Thanks...

12-11-2008, 09:58 AM	#1 (permalink)
stgmngr Upright	met another couple... safe sex - STD testing? My wife and I met another couple while on vacation and we all hit it off sexually. We both were intamate with the other's spouse and did not use condoms (both men are sterile). Now back at home we question our moral decision to not have "safer sex" with the couple.... We are going to visit them in a 2 months and we will of course have some wild times again. Is it the time to ask them to take STD testing and the same for us so that we can all be sure we are disease free? We have not been with anyone else for over 10 years.... but the other couple are members of a swing club although they tell us that they "don't do much there". How does one bring up this subject to someone.... aren't you saying to them "that you want to make sure you are not going to give me a disease?" Thanks...