genuinegirly

How many people out there are still on friendly terms with the person with whom they lost their virginity?

I started thinking about this when I was reading the recent virginity threads. it's a special, unique, passionate, and somewhat awkward experience to share with a person. It could make a solid friendship stronger, or perhaps something else.

In this thread, I'd like people to share what happened after:
Do you know where your first is?
Are you still in touch?
Do you speak reguarly?
Perhaps you did for a while and lost touch.

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I've listed two firsts because I see both as significant.

My 1st orgasm:

While I started masturbating at age 10, I didn't experience my first earth-shattering orgasm until I was 19. I was visiting D.C. with a close male friend on a break from school and we decided to explore. It was a fun, liberating experience. We're still close friends. He even came to my wedding. I definitely see our sexual experiences as a boon. The level of trust between us is unlike any other friendship.

My 1st vaginal penetration:

Somewhere between age 20 and 21 (I don't recall the exact date but it was around our birthdays). My boyfriend at the time, a close friend since age 11. We were both pretty nervous. After we broke up, we lost touch for a couple of years. We regained contact after some time and we currently interact professionally on a daily basis.

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