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communication!
I certainly agree with the other posters so far - if you tell her before it'll make it easier for *both* of you - my last partner struggled to stay hard for a long sesh and would clam up if I tried to broach the subject - it mades things difficult because after a while he would just kind of erm, how do i out this? Go for gold? As in go in too soon, then go really soon - which ended up being quite unfulfilling for both of us. Any girl worth having will be glad that you're comfortable discussing it beforehand so she doesn't have to feel upset by your bits not perhaps behaving which can be gutting as it makes a girl worry you don't find her hat sexually attractive. When you're starting a sexual relationship I think it's great that you can both be as open as possible with your worrys/preferences.
Practice and communication= good lover. There are plenty of things men can do to improve performance (exercises etc) but a word on the weed - in my experience it does make sex pretty great, everything feels so smooth and silky but...when you then do it sober it tends to by comparison feel a bit awkward so I'd avoid doing it frequently because it almost ruins how satisfying it can be sober! Keep it as a treat :-)
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