honestly, the women on this board rule. (the guys do too, of course) Several posters have made excellent suggestions. I favor a) a drink or two, b) disclosing your nervousness, c) telling her that you love to please a woman orally, d) doing it, e) just kissing her/roll around with her naked and enjoy her, f) slide it in when there is less pressure to do so, g) pull out and come on her face (whoops, was momentarily possessed by Worlds King