I think men worry too much about this and it just makes the situation worse. It is very common for a man to be like that the first time - it has happened to a large percentage of my boyfriends over the years - they either have problems getting hard, or slip out and cannot re-penetrate, or shoot very quickly. The first time is the worst. As Halx says, a few beers may help. If you lose your erection, just remember how common this is. If she has had other boyfriends she will probably know that.
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