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I was really, really nervous with the first relationship after I broke up with my fiance. I'd been in a relationship for years and we were both raising her daughter, so I was in the mindset of a very long term relationship. Suddenly being back dating again was a big shock. After a few really decent dates, we went back to her place and I have to admit I had the worst case of butterflies in history. What did I do? Foreplay. Then oral (by me on her). They took my mind off the nervousness long enough for me to get into it and I was fine.
It's just like performing music. It's normal to be nervous going on stage, but when you start playing, most people tend to mellow out and just enjoy it.
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