Alcohol. Not too much, just enough to take away the nerves.
I've been in plenty of situations where the guy gets nervous and can't perform. I understand. I'm sure she will too. Just take your time, don't rush into it. If you're hard then go soft again, do some more foreplay. If it turns out that you can't perform, don't worry about it too much. It will come. (pun not intended. =P)
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