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Originally Posted by Willravel
I disagree (but I'll do so without name calling). What if the person in question is more comfortable without a bra? It's hardly rare to have slightly smaller than average breasts, which may not be caused pain by "flopping around". It seems a little catty to me that one would automatically assume this is about getting attention, but even if it is for attention, what's wrong with that? You don't think women should have the right to be sexual? Or do you assume that an ounce of sexuality somehow poisons a work environment?
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You question my position on the sexuality of women? RFLOL!!
According to the OP in that forum, she was told
"easy to see that i wasn't using a bra when i was active. If people was distracted by me (she claimed) that's not really my problem." Sorry, but to me, that's a dumb statement for her to make. It is her problem and she created it.
Now, how "active" could she be if the place is an office? Walking. "Smaller than average" breasts don't show a lot of "activity" walking.
Sorry, but she's being indignant about something that she's creating herself.
That's not "an ounce of sexuality". That's arrogance. And, yes, sexuality doesn't belong in a professional environment unless it's a Vegas stage show.
I wear SUPPORT bras and still show "activity" but I'm not flaunting it nor do I get indignant when there's a comment made(but since I don't flaunt, any comment is usually in a joking manner). I also don't make it a point to flaunt
because it's in a working environment. There's a huge, HUGE difference between trying to look your best and being a showoff. And if anyone is going to be a showoff, they sure as hell shouldn't complain about it when they're called out on it.
I don't buy that "who, little ol' me??" stuff ever once a person is over the age of 5.