Honestly, yes. I believe you are being unreasonable. Since your husband says you have promised not to "nag" about wanting another child, you should set aside a time with your husband to discuss your desire. At that time, present your argument for another child by showing your husband in concrete terms what it would mean financially and emotionally for every member of your current family if you were to have another child. Include any appliccable medical and educational expenses. Explain in depth what advantages another child in the family would mean to your current children, as well as potential disadvantages. Lay everything out in front of your husband, put it all out on the table. Draw up charts, dig up financial records, have testimonials from families with three children - whatever you think will make a convincing case for having another child.
At the end of your discussion, if your husband is still not interested, drop it and pursue other dreams.
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