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Originally Posted by lostgirl
.....I used to feel weird looking at a guys penis, because as a girl I was taught it was wrong. Now I stare at them any chance I get. I love cock!
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why dont i meet girls like you?
ok dude, you have gotten some great advice, better than i could give. i'm still gonna say what i think though...
when i was a young'n much like yourself, i too had a girlfreind younger than me, possibly younger than your girlfriend, or same age. she was hesitant at first, but we took it slow and talked about it and she soon became extremely interested and curious. Im not suggesting she NEEDS to start having sex. What i´m trying to get across is, if you have been together for more than 6 months, ususally by then a girl will start to be experimental and curious. A year and a half? again, im not rushing you to have sex, and it would be awesome if you guys didnt, but by now there should at least be some kind of petting or something. there should be curiosity, you should at least be talking about it. if she is not, then there might be a problem. no matter how much you rule out sexual abuse, you cannot know for sure, even if she says no, it could have happened and she blocks it out.
some humans just are not into sex, but it seems to me, most at that age are naturally curious and want to try stuff or at least talk about it.
so if sex is important to you (and it should be, it is an important part of any relatoinship) i would just tell her she is awesome but not for you, and i would move on.