The only advice I can give is to let the woman decide what happens, where, and how.
I remember my wife getting pissed at me for not having an opinion as to which shade of blue to pick for the flowers or some shit. I know about eight colours, but apparently there are about five million different shades of blue, all named.
I would have been perfectly happy getting married anywhere, anytime. I didn't need the show, but she did, so I let her do it the way she wanted. It's a huge deal for some women, for some reason, and my advice to you is to let her do her thing, support her decisions, and wake up sober the morning of the wedding. Because the truth is...you know how vacations are prospectively volatile situations for couples? Nothing compared to wedding preparations.
It's worth it in the end, though.
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