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Jinn · 11-24-2008, 11:56 AM

If he were a male pornstar it would be a non-issue. This is just the visceral reaction that some people have when they feel that women are not remaining pure for marriage. There's nothing for the boys; no purity balls and promise rings.. only "Integrity Balls" - teaching young boys that they shouldn't be 'soiling' young women because you shouldn't do that to another man's potential wife.

It's a huge extension of the Virgin/Slut dichotomy. Women are either pure virgins with no interest in sex, or they're sluts wantonly spreading their sex all over this country founded on family values. There's no middle ground where women can actually want and enjoy sex before marriage... oh heavens no!

The same people riled by an aide who used to be a porn star are probably engaging in all manner of impure activities with their spouses.. from doggy style to anal sex, from BDSM to golden showers. But that's A-OK because they're married, don'tcha see? If they turned their warped scale of 'purity' against the same things that they engage in their marriage, they'd be less qualified than her to teach their own children.

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Jinn Lover - Protector - Teacher Location: Seattle, WA	If he were a male pornstar it would be a non-issue. This is just the visceral reaction that some people have when they feel that women are not remaining pure for marriage. There's nothing for the boys; no purity balls and promise rings.. only "Integrity Balls" - teaching young boys that they shouldn't be 'soiling' young women because you shouldn't do that to another man's potential wife. It's a huge extension of the Virgin/Slut dichotomy. Women are either pure virgins with no interest in sex, or they're sluts wantonly spreading their sex all over this country founded on family values. There's no middle ground where women can actually want and enjoy sex before marriage... oh heavens no! The same people riled by an aide who used to be a porn star are probably engaging in all manner of impure activities with their spouses.. from doggy style to anal sex, from BDSM to golden showers. But that's A-OK because they're married, don'tcha see? If they turned their warped scale of 'purity' against the same things that they engage in their marriage, they'd be less qualified than her to teach their own children. __________________ "I'm typing on a computer of science, which is being sent by science wires to a little science server where you can access it. I'm not typing on a computer of philosophy or religion or whatever other thing you think can be used to understand the universe because they're a poor substitute in the role of understanding the universe which exists independent from ourselves." - Willravel Last edited by Jinn; 11-24-2008 at 12:00 PM..