Much of what I want to say has already been expressed here, but I just wanted to make things a bit clear if there is any doubt: One cannot choose to be gay any sooner than another can choose to be straight.
Do we choose heterosexuality too?
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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