Originally Posted by Martian

I've never understood all the fuss on this subject. It's an easy formula.

You dig a girl. Either she digs you or she doesn't. If she does, she'll say yes to your invite pretty much regardless, so long as you don't totally fuck it up. A simple 'hey, want to grab some coffee/catch a movie/go for dinner/INSERT APPROPRIATE ACTIVITY HERE' will suffice. If she says yes, great! You're in with a chance. If she says no, politely go on your way. You've been shot down, and the world did not end. Either way, the reality is that she's probably already made up her mind on you, and there's absolutely no reason to sit around planning some elaborate approach.

No, really. It is that easy. No fooling. Just fucking do it and stop screwing around, or you'll lose your chance.

Even if you don't believe me that she's already made up her mind, even all those mystery method player tools will tell you that chicks dig confidence. You've got a better chance with the direct approach than anything.