Originally Posted by little_tippler

Intentionally? I wouldn't do it. Seems calculating, cold, and hurtful.

Have I not had sex with a partner because I'm upset with them and so can't get in the mood? Yes.

I have never not had sex with someone to piss them off or teach them a lesson. What I have done is turned away from sex with a partner because they have seriously upset me and are unresponsive to my concerns. It's not a conscious decision - it's that, when I feel that way, I really don't want to have sex with them, it's a turn off.