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Intentionally? I wouldn't do it. Seems calculating, cold, and hurtful.
Have I not had sex with a partner because I'm upset with them and so can't get in the mood? Yes.
I have never not had sex with someone to piss them off or teach them a lesson. What I have done is turned away from sex with a partner because they have seriously upset me and are unresponsive to my concerns. It's not a conscious decision - it's that, when I feel that way, I really don't want to have sex with them, it's a turn off.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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