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To use sex as a tool other than to create life or bond with your lover is wrong to me. I won't barter myself like a whore, of course I am excluding playful toying from this. I will not say that I would be inclined to hop in the sack with a lover who just violated something important within our relationship, but I feel that is a separate issue than purposefully withholding sex. If you are having issues, dealing with the issues is of far greater importance than worrying if you got your rocks off. If you are just saying no, rolling over and never confronting you problems.. that is definitely the beginning of a long roll downhill.
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I am only a little spoon in a huge world of soup.
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