Intentionally withholding sex to alter the behavior of one's partner is not healthy for a relationship, in my opinion. I would go so far as to say that it is a form of extortion and could very easily backfire. When transactions take place in a relationship that are born out of a desire for a specific result, without consideration for the partner, it probably won't lead anywhere but downhill from there, since you've opened the door for them to do the same to you in the future. It's thoroughly unpleasant and inconducive to love.
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