When I left the first lad I ever lived with he rang me sometime later and suggested that we could have an arrangement where we just met for sex when either of us needed it, and I was really offended. I would always suspect I was being used, and if it was someone I knew a bit better, the friend with benefits scenario, I would be frightened the person developed feelings and I would end up hurting them. Theoretically, it's a great idea - I hope it works for you!
|