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Originally Posted by Bill O'Rights
It's a double standard, sure. Fair? No. Not by a long shot, I'm sure. But the simple fact is...two girls...big turn on for old BOR here. Two guys? Ummm...no. Not at all. So, because I'm far from alone in that regard, we allow the women to explore that side of themselves. We actually encourage it. Hell, we'll even pay them to do it.
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Right, and if the double standard is to be defeated maybe more women should be as open as men have been/are about encouraging or allowing the flip side of this behavior in men. I think that there are a good number of women who, at least occasionally, enjoy the fantasy of seeing two men together. If more women shared this fantasy with the men in their lives (think about the now fairly commonplace woman-woman fantasy for men), then the reality of male to male sexual contact might have less of a stigma attached.
With respect to the initial purposes of the thread: When I was a child of 8 or so, I had a good friend who I hung out with. We touched each other out of curiosity. We drifted apart as our families moved away and never kept in touch. As an adult, I haven't had any male-male contact. I'd entertain the idea in the right situation for the sexual gratification aspect. I'm not really into the idea of kissing or holding hands with a guy, but I would be happy to try giving and receiving oral if the situation presented itself.